Daryl is a contributing guest blogger from GLSEN.

This probably won’t come as a shock, but sometimes gossip sites try to generate their own news on slow news days. OK, make that any news day. What’s not so obvious is what to do when a gossip entity reaches out to your organization looking for a comment.

A month after the launch of GLSEN and the Ad Council’s Think Before You Speak campaign, designed to raise awareness among teenagers about the derogatory phrase “that’s so gay, ” I received this email:

“TMZ.com here, wondering if GLSEN has any statement about “The Simpsons” episode from last night — specifically when Nelson called The Grand Pumpkin “super gay” and proceeded to make fun of Millhouse because of it.”

Typically, we leave media commentary about lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues to our friends at GLAAD, but the insult did fall within the scope of our campaign, albeit in the form of an unsympathetic bully using the phrase in a way that may actually have been a commentary on the frequent use of the term. Alas, we don’t have Matt Groening on speed dial, so if we were going to comment we were going to have to do so without any context beyond what 60 seconds on YouTube could provide.

The way we saw it we had four options 1) No comment, 2) Bland comment in an effort to kill a story that seemed pretty dependent on us, 3) Serious comment calling into question the use of the term, or 4) Have fun with it.

Probably one of the hardest things with advocacy campaigns is to understand the point at which you cross from being passionate about an important issue to taking yourselves too seriously in the eyes of the very people you’re trying to reach.

In this case, it didn’t seem clear cut to us that this was a grossly improper use of the phrase deserving of a harsh response. But this was also an opportunity to get our campaign mentioned on a TV show/website that drives conversation among the very audience we’re trying to reach.

So we went with No. 4: Have fun with it:

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